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2023-12-31 22:35阅读:4,492
Now it's December 29th and there will be a new year in two days. I'm on the subway line 10 on the way to work. Considering that I may not have enough time to finish the conclusion of my 2023.Consequently, I will start now. Now what I am listening is a song called Summer sung by li jiuzhe. I bet I am so familiar with the melody.
People have different states of mind at different life phases. I still remembered I felt frustrated and negative at this time last year. Life is still full of uncertainties, I become more peaceful and certain this year.
The book I read recently is called renzhi juexing by zhouling.
At the beginning of 2023, I was in Nanjing, I had arrived there at the end of 2022 for I had online teaching. I got sick at that time and so did most Chinese people all over China. I still remembered Fuzi Temple in Nanjing was still crowded as part of people had recovered from the covid-19 like me. What can imagine, after half a year, during the summer vacation, y
ou even couldn't get a chance to have a look at Qinhuai river--mountain people mountain sea. So crowded that I gave up the thought of going boating to see the river scenery with my parents who came here for the first time.
I still remember some moments-- when I am being myself.But what a pity, there are so few that I really treasure them. I try to create more such valuable moments in the coming year. Life is made up of various experiences. It's a waste if I don't make good use of it.
In the following new year, I hope I can form a habit of reading books so that I can think more and view something from a different perspective. Reading is just like having a chat with an expert and a wise man. I need to make friends or have a chat with wise men. I want to become old wisely. I want to be a woman with an independent mind.
In the following year, I hope I can exercise more to become fitter,stronger , slimmer and healthier.
I am proud of myself, for I have been working out for nearly 80 days and I have lost nearly 10kg, which is really out of my expectation. That's really important for me to get the confidence and the belief that I can make it. I took up workout and started out the light weights.Although I am not strong enough and I still can't finish some workbook, it doesn't matter cause I know I am making a little bit breakthrough every day and I am making progress every day. To be honest, I struggle to finish it at times.
I do hope that my family members and the ones that I love can be safe and sound in the coming new year. My aunt has got cancer, although there's no proof to make sure it. She suffers a lot and lost nearly all her hair. I went to see her during the National day and had made preparation that perhaps it's the last time for us to meet each other. I do hope that it's a mistake and she's such a kind person that I pray for her. At the beginning of 2023, my dad had an operation on his knees because of overwork. It does bring Loads of inconvenience to his life cause he cannot walk for a long time. My mother has got high blood pressure for many years. I hope I can change their eating habits and living habits, which is a little challenging for they have different ideas. The good news is that my dad quitted smoking because of the knee operation. During the process of the operation, he was unconscious and failed to breathe automatically,which gave him a serious lesson--life can be really fragile.
I hope that I can overcome some drawbacks in my personality-- wasting time on making decisions, failing to sleep well because of something during the day, dealing with interpersonal relationships, carding too much about others' feelings and so on. I wanna be a better person-- be free and independent in mind, a warm but indifferent person, the person who can judge something by my own values. I actually have made some changes, which is a big breakthrough for me to connect with other people.
I hope that my family and I have a new trip during the next summer holidays, maybe we can go further and totally different places. I try to be generous and give them better experience. As for the thing that I feel ashamed, it was the trip from Shanghai to nanjing. We chose to return by train.it was really cheap but we including my parents and my young niece needed to sit through the whole night. There was a problem because of the tickets. My parents had to change seats at midnight and my father had to leave the train and ran to the another carriage. He suffered both physically and psychologically, for he had never experienced that.
I hope Eric (Zhong) can pay more attention to his own health. He's too lazy to make any efforts. His health is not in a good condition, he needs to take medicine every day. If only he could care about his diet and become active.
Last but not the least, I do hope I can love myself more and learn how to love myself and have the ability to let me happy and have a steady mood.
I have a little dream--if only I would have a chance to become a writer.
Let me check my 2023 resolutions.
1: God blesses my family and me and all the kind people. Be safe and sound every year.
Thank you! My dad had a knee operation, but he gave up smoking. My aunt had a bad disease and I hope she can overcome it.
2: I hope I can be more dependent in my mind and learn to cope with different people.
I am making progress. I am becoming a better self. --- I am sure.


3: Cherish every second and do something I like.
I try to pay more attention to myself.


4: Cherish the people around you. Spend more time with my parents and my family.
I had a trip with my family.


5: Be healthy.-- Eat healthy food and do some workout.
Yeah, I have been eating healthy food and working out for 80 days.


6: Get a big breakthrough--- personality/ job.
not a big breakthrough.


7: Go traveling-- go to a different place .
Yeah, but not far places.
8: Take my parents to go traveling.
I did it.
9: Maybe have a baby.
Sorry,
10: Encourage Zhong to take exercise and pay attention to his diet.
Sorry, he is too lazy.
My 2024--- New year resolution
1) Be safe and sound~ Health matters most-- God blesses my family and the ones I love.
2) Good luck to all the kind people.
3) Hope my aunt can overcome cancer.
4) Become thinner --- My Goal ---- 52,5KG -- Now nearly- 59.5 KG
5) Travel further
6) Travel with my family
7) Try to pay off part of my loan
8) Read 54 books-- a book per month
9) Become more professional in my field
10) look for new possibilities
11) Keep on working out --- Increase more muscles -- be stronger
12) Hope Zhong can be fitter and control his disease.
13) make a new friend , may be
14) have a baby, may be
15) get married, may b
Good luck ~
Hello 2024, I'm coming ~
I'm on the sofa and Zhong is watching videos.

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