通往爱情的路可能只有一条,I don’t want to win
everything but the girl I have loved deep in my heart.
但是我们知道这世界上经常会有两个人爱上同一个人的情况。我想不出好的解决办法,我想对于男人女人分别有不同的和解方法。如果是两个男人爱上同一个女人,这两个男人可以决斗,也可以相互了解,商量。让那个女子选择,无论她选谁,另一方都应当接受。如果是两个女人爱上同一个男人,那么这两个女人的最终幸运的那个要为另一个女人做媒,安排另一个人去照顾她。
世上的事很多都不是公平的,也不可能完美解决的。 只能说以上这些办法是妥协的对策吧。
战胜自我,是让每一天都变得有意义的唯一有效方法。我们不仅要战胜自己的贪婪、战胜自己的急功近利、战胜自己松懈的斗志、战胜自己的失落、甚至绝望,更要战胜人类天生的惰性,尤其是要战胜为自己的惰性寻找借口的小聪明。
没有人能够真正了解另外一个人不断变化的情绪状态,没有人能够随时把握别人的心理变化,没有人能够知道其他人每天是怎么度过自己的二十四小时,唯有你自己,清楚这一切。
但意见、建议反映了你的思考,绩效说明了你的努力和能力,外界的评价往往来自对你工作业绩的客观分析和判断。
也许我们的能力有限,我们付出了努力,但并没有得到期望的回报;也许我们自认为取得了理想的成绩,却因为评价体系与标准的不同,我们的付出没有得到自己期望的评价和肯定。
这些并不重要,重要的是你的坚持是否一如既往?你是否让自己的每一天都没有虚度?你是否挑战了自己的极限,战胜了自我?
成功的人的十大特征
Top 10 Traits of a Successful Person
转自:http://spotonlists.com/health-lifestyle/top-10-traits-of-successful-person/
Taking something that you believe in and working for it to make it
happen is Success. Though, the road to success is not an easy one,
full of thorns to travel over. Traversing through the difficult
paths are the spurs to success. Success has no short-cut. A long
journey which needs passion, power, perseverance, perspicacity and
persistence. Fortune
favors
the diligent, the
steadfast and the clear thinker. Successful people are not just
dreamers but doers too. The ladder of success is best climbed by
stepping on with great fortitude. Success can be obtained by many,
but maintaining it requires
passion, avidity and a lust for
life. Failure is just one phase of success, which can and will
happen, embrace it and the world is yours. Learn from the mistakes
and there would be no failure henceforth. keep trying, even if the
timing and circumstances aren’t with you. Successful people got
there by continuous effort, even if the situation and timing wasn’t
perfect.
Success-Requisite and desire of every
person on this earth. To some it means following your dreams and
goals while to others it means to be happy with family, healthy and
wealthy.
LUCK , the magic word, also plays an important role in
climbing the ladder of success-Being at the right
place, at the right time, doing the right thing. It deserves the
fair share of the credit. Whether good or bad luck, it’s just one
element to success. When good, let it be the wind in your sail and
when bad, stir it frequently with determination and preparation to
achieve Success. True Success depends on the ability to take up
tough challenges again and again without feeling down in the dumps.
It’s more like a game where one has to win and the other has to
loose. Winners achieves success and
losers
try harder
for the next time to grab that success.
Successful person thrives for happiness, security and sustenance as
every other person does. The difference lies in the way it had been
achieved. The road that a successful person crosses is rugged, but
still the person keeps on moving forward and that’s how winning is
achieved. They started from the bottom and worked their way up in
life. Successful person knows that a huge output needs a huge
input. They depend on their skill and ambition to succeed. Most
people in today’s world will walk away from something or the other
because they find it too hard but successful people love challenges
and compete with onself, thereby marking a beginning of new era.
Successful people sees new opportunities and possibilities where
others see trouble. For every person to flourish and grow,
following are the top 10 prominent traits:
10.
TENACITY

Successful people are not built overnight. It takes time.
Successful people honor the natural and uncertain flow of life.
Successful people strive for results, higher returns and for that
they work with determination. There is
no
such thing as “
GIVING UP” in a successful
person’s mind. They keep on moving harder till the time the goal is
achieved. Confidence and indomitable spunk keep them going even in
their bad phase or continuing failures. They see only the way up
ahead, not the way down beneath. Tenacious people work for success
incessantly. Successful people wear the armour of dedication and
determination to compete and win.
9.
SANGUINE

To be a successful person, one has to be confidently optimistic and
positive. Life has ups and
downs. Everthing
becomes
easier if there is positivity in oneself. They believe that their
success is inevitable. Even if things don’t happen the way they are
meant to be or planned, they tend to stay calm, composed and
positive. Also, prefer to mould the situation with optimism.
Thereby, leading to better results. A Sanguine person also are
socially enthusiast. They tend to mingle with all kinds of people,
enhance their visibility and reach which helps them in attaining
their success. Successful people tend to look at the solutions. The
mind is focussed on the solving problem rather than worrying about
it, and gives a better chance at success. Optimism helps in
boosting confidence, and maintaining mental and physical
health.
8.
CLEAR THINKER

Successful people need to have clarity of his/her goals, ambitions,
desire, mission, vision, and thoughts. The objectives, aims and how
to achieve them must be very well stated in his/her mind. No second
thought or divergence is acceptable. Neither do procrastinate.
Successful people have a well-defined purpose and aren’t easily
influenced by the thoughts and opinions of others. They follow
their dream with passion which resonates in their heart. Possess
strong willpower and clarity, which brings strong results.
Successful people live in the present and have the ability to peer
over the horizon.
7.
TIME-MANAGEMENT

One of the most important trait to be a successful person is
time-management-to
allot
time effectively and
efficiently. Time-the most important asset of a successful person.
To be a successful person, one has to learn to respect and value
time as time once gone is gone forever, it never comes back.
Time-management helps in keeping work-life balance that helps in
achieving success at a better pace. With time-management, one can
prioritize the task to be done according to their importance and
then analyze the output gained in the specified duration. This
helps in knowing the level of success achieved.
6.
INTEGRITY

Principle of honesty and sincerity is also an important facet.
Person with scrupulous integrity is admired and the most
successful. The people with high integrity always do the highest ,
purest and excellent quality of work in every sphere of life. They
are true to oneself and others as well. A person is successful
because of the values, beliefs and honesty that he/she retains in
himself/herself. Integrity is the manifestation of success. It is
easy to make promises but often very hard to keep. But if one keeps
that promise and honors commitment, it is an act of integrity,
which in turn strengthens your character and thus helps in moving
towards the success.
5.
AVID LEARNER

Successful people are avid learners. They often feel that they can
learn something from someone else. They tend to incorporate the
good qualities of others. They wake-up in the morning excited about
their day because they know that they would explore something new
and beneficial which will bring them one step closer to achieving
their success. They don’t vacillate in learning from others rather
try new things
and put themselves out in front. Successful
people are leaders as others are attracted to their enthusiasm to
learn, explore and grow, and become followers hoping to experience
the same.
4.
APLOMB
Aplomb is the foundation of success. One
can achieve anything, if he/she has belief in himself/herself.
Success is the combination of confidence with competence. The
feeling of Confidence is a positive state where the subconscious
mind is directed towards the success of a thing. Confidence is like
a magnet which attracts things one aspires to achieve. Success is
directly
proportional
to confidence. Increase in
confidence, there would be increase in success and vice-versa.
Aplomb
helps in doing the right things and creates a
positive reinforcement.
3.
LISTENER AND KEEN OBSERVER

A successful person must be a good listener and a keen observer.
People who listen succeed in life because they are able to know and
understand the needs of other people and focus their energy in
meeting those needs. Also, they adjust certain behaviour or
patterns pertaining to others which helps them to reach their
destination. Successful people tend to observe things around them,
adapt and
mold
themselves accordingly in order to
achieve their goal. They don’t tolerate flaws, rather observe,
evaluate
and fix them.
2.
COURAGE

A person can be successful if he/she is brave enough to tackle
every situation that comes onto their way. It is the action that
surpasses the feeling of anxiety. Courage to take up new thing, new
challenge and make it work is a trait of a successful person.
Successful person are not afraid of taking risk and conquering
their fears. They are not afraid to burn bridges, if it means
moving forward and making your dream a reality. Success takes
courage to overcome the fears, and push
oneself
beyond the boundaries of comfort and complacency. Helps to expand,
jump over the wall of comfort and convenience.
1.
OPEN-MINDED

Successful people are open-minded. They are not bounded by
falsities of life. Rather welcome new ideologies, beliefs and
inculcate them in their living in order to achieve the success. New
experiences are being added up and strengthens
onself.
Successful
people embrace changes and take advantages of the
same in order to succeed. They are information hungry. Striving to
get more and more knowledge as knowledge is the key to success.
Successful people learn and constantly ask questions so that they
can enhance their information and thereby, help themselves in
succeeding by applying or taking advantage of what they have
learnt. The more flexible one is, more opportunities would come
their way and would increase the chances of success. Successful
people swiftly maneuver in different directions as and when the
condition demands.
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